Hi ate Xyla!,

I’m having a hard time communicating with boys. I have this friend and gusto kong maging close sa kanya. The thing is nahihiya ako whenever magkasama kami. I don’t get it pero may isang guy close friend ako na hindi ako nahihiya. And we can talk anything under the sun. Pero pag sa iba, nahihiya talaga ako. Hmm. What should I do? :)

Love,

shy girl. :)

Hello Shy girl!

You can’t force yourself to feel comfortable with a certain person. It just comes out naturally. The reason why you feel shy when you’re with him is because you haven’t found the comfort zone with him yet. You need to know him more. How? Initiate stories or topics that both of you will get interested to. I’m sure, tuloy tuloy na ang kwento niyan. :)

<3

Xyla