March 12, 2010

Being single

Dear Ate Xyle,

I was wondering if you could help me clear my head..er…heart? lol..ano kasi ate xyla…uh..it all starts out with me being single since the start of time. and now sophomore yr is over, Im still single, which isnt really a problem for me since Im not also allowed to have a relationship yet…but I just cant help having mixed feelings of envy/happiness when I see my friends start to pair up..or when they have that special someone…then I even have this bestfriend who no one expects to be interested in teh male species but now has 2(!) guys chasing after her….Any enlightening words?

Love,

inlove with the idea of love 

p.s. I hope I made sense >.<

There is nothing wrong in being single. I know how it feels like to be in love with the thought of being in love but you don’t have to rush things. Just because you don’t have a boyfriend right now, doesn’t mean you’re unpretty or a loser. Enjoy your life being single rather than feel doomed about it.

Just so you know, my boyfriend now is my first boyfriend and I met him when I was 22. See? You’re not alone. Maybe you haven’t met the right person yet. Maybe he’s there in your future waiting for you. :)