Hi ate Xyla,
I just want you to give me an advice. This guy kasi, i think i’ve really fallen for him, ive known him since last year. The problem is, he’s very sweet tlga to me, and though “we are not” we have this endearment, and u know that situation, “parang kami pero hindi naman tlga”. 
Crush ko tlga sice my 2nd day as a freshmen college student, kc super gwapo nia(im not being exagge). un ngasweet po xah skin, pero pti din pla sa ibang gurl, akala q skin lng xah gnun. Then he started being possessive. Auko nmn nagaaway kmi, kc auko nah mwla din xah. Help me nmn.. 
Dapat ko nb xah layuan khit super hirap?

Hello!

This is my question, why is he already possessive of you when there’s really no commitment? You can’t really say that you are already committed to each other when you still have that feeling of “parang kame pero hindi naman talaga”. What you only have is a mutual understanding, which is really confusing. What you need to do is to ask this guy what’s the real score. Your emotions are at stake here. He just can’t play with your feelings like that. You need to know what is really going on between the two of you. If he tells you that you’re just friends, then maybe you should start detaching yourself from him before you enter another painful situation with him.