*sigh* I’ve been insecure over this girl for the past 6 years. (long, I know.) and for me, it gets harder because she’s becoming more famous. You see, she was the reason my boyfriend and I broke up years ago. When we were together I had a hard time because he had a crush on the girl when she wasn’t so popular yet. I’ve constantly compared myself to her- coz’ she’s this and that.

Sometimes when I get all masochistic-y on me, or pag nainis ako, pupuntahan ko website nung girl. Kahit na alam ko na mamaya, I’ll be hurt again. I can’t seem to shake this girl out of my life, at mas mahirap pa ngayon na sikat na siya. Would you believe that this cycle has been going on for 6 years? I say to myself that I want to stop but I have such a hard time. Any help will be appreciated. Thanks :)
-Mia

Hello, Mia! Sorry for the very late reply.

Anyway, 6 years of insecurity with one person is unbelievable. No offense meant but are you just really insecure or envy with this girl or in some way you also admire this girl? Have you thought about that? Because maybe unconsciously you admire this girl for what she has achieved. Like you, I also have my insecurity issues. We all know that there is NO cure to insecurity. What you should do is to LOVE YOURSELF more. Stop comparing yourself to others because you are beautiful and unique in your own way. You won’t be happy in your life if you just keep hating a person. Did she do something that hurt you other than your ex-boyfriend crushing on her? If yes, then I would understand how you feel. But if not, then go on with your life and do something productive that will make you a better person. Ask yourself, will this insecurity do any good to yourself? Will it help you become a better person?

Good luck! I hope this helped!

Xyla