January 4, 2010

I saw a girl in my dreams and so it seems that I will love her. I want to tell her, but I’m a loser, and I’ll get no reply. Please help me.

Jim

Hi Jim! Your letter just made me say, Aww. I understand what you feel. If you really want to tell her your feelings, you can approach her or just write her a letter. If she doesn’t give you a reply, don’t think that it’s the end of the world (okay, that’s too exaggerated. Haha!). What’s important is that you told her your feelings. You let it all out. If she’s not the one for you, I know there will be someone who is set for you. You just have to wait for that person to come into your life.

In love, we will all get hurt… And that’s okay. Because if we don’t feel pain in our life, we will not learn. Those painful experiences mold us into a better person (or a better lover). We learn how to stand up again and move on and enjoy our beautiful life. Always remember that.

But I do hope she’d reply. Whether it’s negative or positive, at least you did your part. :) Smile. You never know if someone is falling in love with your smile.

I hope that made you feel better.

Wishing you all the best,

Xyla