Imitating

Hi Miss Xyla. I have a friend who likes to imitate or copy me a lot. For example, I bought this new top… the next thing I know she also has the same top although different color. Basta, so many things. I dunno what to do. Help. :(

- anonymous

Hi dear. :) I know the feeling of being imitated or copied by a friend but I just always put this in my mind: IMITATION IS THE BEST FORM OF FLATTERY. Just take it as a compliment. But if it really irritates you, you can confront your friend in a way that you won’t hurt her feelings. Don’t sound like you’re bragging… Just do it in a calm nice way. I hope though that she’d understand what you feel about this situation.

I hope this enlightened you. :)

Love lots,

Xyla